This Easter, I’ve taken a whole week off work and it has been a real joy. It’s been several months since we have been ‘away, away’ but I enjoy pottering around at home and taking things slowly.
I would call this ‘staycation’ a ‘slow-cation’. It’s not that I haven’t done anything, mind you.
Gin & Book Club
On the evening of my last Friday of work, I got straight into holiday mode. This particular occasion saw the second gathering of a recently-formed ‘Gin & Book Club.’
This ingenious ‘books plus booze’ combination is the idea of my friend, Zoe. Following her 50th birthday last autumn, Zoe (with our help) has been sampling her collection of specialist gins that she received as gifts.
Sharing in this way has enabled us to sample all kinds of flavours that we might not otherwise have tried including marmalade, lemon drizzle and grapefruit. To this, we add our favourite tonic water, plus herbs, to make a lovely, refreshing drink.
Another positive is that we have not only renewed old friendships and nurtured new ones; we have also begun to enjoy literature that we might not otherwise have found. Our latest book was Convenience Store Woman by Sayaka Murata. It’s odd, a little dark and – at times – very funny.
Zoe has also negotiated a discount if we want to buy the books we’ve chosen at our local bookshop. I turned up there to buy book number 3 (Tangerine by Christine Mangan) and it was gratifying to see how busy it was in there.
Buying locally brings me onto a theme that I’ve been thinking about a lot. In spite of a healthy population of over 20,000 residents, Kenilworth has seen the closure of a number of independent stores in recent months. It also lacks some of the high street names that would be a draw to youngsters who want to shop; they have to go further afield.
It’s hard to reconcile the desire to support local retailers whilst being very intentional about what I buy. If I do need something, I will pop into town (garden rake, £7.50, Wilco’s), but it’s true that – as a family – we spend very little locally.
Going further afield
Friday was a mum and daughter day in Oxford. We took the train from Kenilworth (my first time since the station re-opened) via Leamington. Door-to-door, the whole journey was around an hour. I wish I could tell you that our objective in the ‘city of dreaming spires’ was to explore the historical architecture or take a trip on the river. Alas, it was to replenish Amy’s depleted wardrobe, as she finds the choices locally to be very limited (see above!).
In shopping with Amy, I have discovered the joys of reading on a smartphone whilst waiting for the ‘trying on’ to happen. I know I spent at least an hour in TopShop, during which time I read several chapters of Jenni Murray’s Memoirs of a not so dutiful Daughter.
Oxford, it would seem, recognises the benefits of providing seating for those doing the waiting; it gives them more staying-power in support of those doing the shopping!
Being anti-social with digital media
This week, I have also remained largely immune to the lure of social media. Twitter seems to have got very shouty and political; Instagram more fun and supportive but still a potential digital rabbit-hole. So, whenever I have felt the twitch to check my phone, I’ve simply got back into my book, which has been far more rewarding.
Although I’m still dipping into Facebook from time to time, I’ve seen a number of people come off social media recently (some for good). What’s your take on it?
Getting my steps in
Alongside a couple of evening activities this week, Mr G and I have also started to do a bit more walking. We plan to invest in some new walking boots this spring, which is necessary for me; I had to consign my old ones to the recycling centre, as they were letting in water.
Since major back surgery last month, my husband is now on the BLT Plan: No Bending, No Lifting, No Twisting. That means that he is limited – especially during this period of recovery – in what he can do for exercise. His surgeon advises walking – and lots of it. So, we have started to venture a little further afield.
Yesterday, we started at The Red Lion at Hunningham, taking in a circular walk through the countryside via Weston-under-Wetherley and Cubbington before heading back to the start for a well-earned drink in the pub garden in the sunshine beneath the large umbrellas.
Today’s walk was just an hour’s circuit of the Millennium Walk round the Castle, so we have earned a little bit of Easter egg today.
One of the members of the ‘Gin & Book Club’ plans to walk the Cotswold Way next month, doing 10 miles per day over 10 days along with her family. I think I’ll need to walk a lot further and for longer before I attempt that, but I’m tempted…
So, what have you enjoyed this Easter? If you’re local, I’d love to know. If you’re further afield, what do the Easter holidays look like for you? Happy Easter, whatever you’re doing.
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